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Wellness & Balance

How Families Can Overcome the Hidden Holiday Wellness Gap They Miss

The holiday season often brings images of warm gatherings, familiar traditions and cherished time with the people who matter most. But for many older adults, this time of year can also feel bittersweet.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, older adults are at increased risk for social isolation and loneliness. These conditions are often linked to higher rates of heart disease, stroke, depression, dementia and even premature death.

Connection during the holidays isn’t just comforting; it’s essential

That makes family gatherings more meaningful than ever. At Conviva Senior Primary Care, we see how the holidays can serve as powerful opportunities for families to strengthen bonds, offer support and help older loved ones feel truly seen. Amid celebrations, it can be easy to overlook the quieter emotional burdens seniors may carry: grief for loved ones lost, changes in mobility or independence, or the feeling of being left out of the fast-paced festivities.

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Shorter winter days can deepen feelings of isolation, turning a joyful season into one that feels unexpectedly heavy. The good news is that the beauty of the holidays often lies in simple, thoughtful gestures.

Inviting a parent or grandparent to share a childhood memory, choose the music for the evening or pass down a treasured family recipe does more than spark nostalgia. It reinforces their role at the center of family tradition. These small acts of inclusion can restore confidence, connection and a sense of belonging.

Holiday gatherings also provide a natural opportunity to gently check in on a loved one’s well-being

Changes in appetite, energy, mobility or engagement may stand out more clearly when
families are together. Asking caring, low-pressure questions like “How have you been feeling lately?” or “Is there anything I can help with?” can open the door to meaningful conversations without making anyone feel self-conscious.

Activities that spark joy don’t need to be elaborate. A short stroll after dinner, singing along to familiar holiday songs, decorating together or working on a puzzle can lift spirits and ease stress. And if a loved one seems withdrawn or down, stepping aside for a quiet, compassionate moment can make a world of difference.

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If those feelings linger, encouraging them to speak with a health care provider is a the way to go. This ensures they’re supported emotionally as well as physically. Research, and years of experience caring for older adults, reminds us that presence is one of the most powerful forms of care. When families slow down, pay attention, and extend patience and love, the holidays become more than celebrations. They become opportunities for connection and support.

Conviva is committed to helping seniors thrive not only during the holidays, but throughout the year. With comprehensive primary care, emotional-wellness resources, and a care team that truly listens, we stand beside families as they navigate both the joys and the complexities of aging. This season, may we all rediscover the heart of the holidays: connection, compassion and the simple joy of being together.

Provided by: Conviva Senior Primary Care